It is that harrowing time of the year again for many parents when they are facing up to parting from their children as they leave for university. It probably only delays the inevitable, but it may reassure some parents to know that the U.K. government is proposing not to charge tuition fees to students in England, if they remain at home during their studies. From next year the tuition fee increases to £3,225 annually, which obviously makes this proposal financially attractive, particularly to poorer families. The saving on tuition fees, however, means that the government will not provide any other financial support, i.e. no low interest student loan or means tested grant.

The number of parents who suffer the emotional upheaval of children leaving home for the first time to go to university may reduce. I was surprised to learn that there is a growing number of students who now live at home whilst studying for a degree. In 1984, it was only 8%, but by 2008, it had risen to 20%. The introduction of student loans in 1990, replacing non repayable grants, has no doubt influenced this increase. Students who took loans out in 1990, are probably still paying them off now. It is estimated that students who started a three year course in 2007, will leave university with an average student loan debt of £17,500.

It will be a dilemma for parents. If we can financially support them, should we encourage children to study at home and have them close at hand for a further three or four years, at the risk of them not choosing the best course of study because the university is too far away? You may be lucky in that the best course is within travelling distance of home, but still your son or daughter may be denied the benefits of gaining life-long friends, living in a different community and acquiring independence.

If this idea becomes law, it will not take effect until next year. In the meantime parents must face up to the melancholy prospect of their offspring returning for the Autumn term, or leaving for the first time.

Last week, in a department store, I saw cards in various sizes for sale. They were replicas of posters which apparently the government prepared in 1939, during World War II, but were never issued. The cards bore the simple message, "Stay Calm and Carry On". It is not so easy to do this, however.